No its stupid to be in a relationship with more then one person because someone is going to end up getting hurt. It's stupid to do something when you know it's going to hurt someone.
No I understand it's just fucking stupid. In every relationship there's drama and the more people you add the more drama there will be you can't expect someone not to get hurt in a type of relationship like that. People who want more then one person in a relationship can't handle a true relationship.
Unless the relationship is centered around sex then it's called fuck buddies but in an otherwise romantic/platonic relationship the sex is irrelevant in polyamory. It just means multiple loves.
I respect your beliefs but why would you want to be with more then one person. I love my husband and I couldn't imagine loving someone else the way I love him
Hellsbells it's very true, I wouldn't love someone else the way I love another and that's the point, love occurs in different ways. Geluregis since I'm bisexual polyamoroury makes sense to me also
I feel like polyamory is dependent on the same factors that getting a single relationship depends on, except even more so because you'll have to find multiple people you love as well as their understanding of your situation.
I've always admired poly relationships, how you can keep the trust and bond between three or more people is so cool, when I can't even keep it with one person lol
Poly isn't easy, but what relationship is? Everyone gets hurt no matter how many people are in it, we grow up, grow apart, break up and move on. Being in a relationship where a need could never be met by one person and ignoring that need for the sake of being with "one person" is just as hurtful. The key to a successful relationship(s) is being upfront, with others as well as yourself, and communicating those needs with everyone involved. If poly isn't your thing, find a partner who agrees, just don't go bashing someone else's relationship because you can't wrap your head around it.
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