1. If you think you were being centrist and she reacted that way, either she’s a far left communist whack job or you’re so far right two bad dates away from making it to a news headline that contains the word “tragedy.”
2. The way this is written, the way OP speaks makes me assume the answer to number 1 is the second choice.
3. Be yourself on dates. Cliche yeah? Sure all that stuff about liking you for who you are, but nah. Some people being themselves will still end up unhappy or alone. It’s just you’ll probably be happier alone as yourself than after your relationship ends and you spent as long as you could faking being someone else and then got dumped and are now alone again. From the sound of this, the other person will be happier too if they can find out who you are sooner than later on be on with things. Or maybe you get a date with Lauren Boebert and luck out. Who knows. If you need to pretend to be someone else to get dates you probably just need to go work on yourself.
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Aaand... alt-right kids who believe Joe Biden is a communist downvoted you.
Lol. “Cancel culture!” “Another example of male voices being silenced by a woke media culture!”
There. Most of that crowd can’t or won’t read more than two sentences and that should be enough to get them all to upvote me and probably even pay me to give a seminar.
I kid.. partially. But I mean- meh. Lol. I ain’t losing sleep because some folks saw a mirror and didn’t like what it showed. Facing ourselves can be hard. Accepting that it isn’t as simple as “be yourself” but is a more complex concept akin to “be the best version of yourself” or “be the person you want and need to be.” Who we think we should be won’t always be compatible with who anyone else or the world thinks we should be. We gotta decide what we want most in life, and sometimes choosing one thing means we can’t have another, so we have to choose our priorities. Maybe you want to colonize Mars, and maybe that means you’re gonna be single or have a very narrow pool to choose from on Mars. Choose a priority.
2. The way this is written, the way OP speaks makes me assume the answer to number 1 is the second choice.
3. Be yourself on dates. Cliche yeah? Sure all that stuff about liking you for who you are, but nah. Some people being themselves will still end up unhappy or alone. It’s just you’ll probably be happier alone as yourself than after your relationship ends and you spent as long as you could faking being someone else and then got dumped and are now alone again. From the sound of this, the other person will be happier too if they can find out who you are sooner than later on be on with things. Or maybe you get a date with Lauren Boebert and luck out. Who knows. If you need to pretend to be someone else to get dates you probably just need to go work on yourself.
There. Most of that crowd can’t or won’t read more than two sentences and that should be enough to get them all to upvote me and probably even pay me to give a seminar.
I kid.. partially. But I mean- meh. Lol. I ain’t losing sleep because some folks saw a mirror and didn’t like what it showed. Facing ourselves can be hard. Accepting that it isn’t as simple as “be yourself” but is a more complex concept akin to “be the best version of yourself” or “be the person you want and need to be.” Who we think we should be won’t always be compatible with who anyone else or the world thinks we should be. We gotta decide what we want most in life, and sometimes choosing one thing means we can’t have another, so we have to choose our priorities. Maybe you want to colonize Mars, and maybe that means you’re gonna be single or have a very narrow pool to choose from on Mars. Choose a priority.