Poor Kermit

i'm in the same boat, though she was psychotic, we were very compatible, i still miss her, i think whether breaking up was a good idea, it was, but i still miss her. can't even be friends with her as all she does is just argue when i tried. she jumped right into another relationship within a week after me, and is now engaged, but he doesn't know the real side of her, the bad side, i feel sorry for him.

My ex jumps between saying I'm better off without him and telling me he's miserable and hates the choices he's made. But I do realize that if he couldn't commit after 7 years then he never will. I'll never be the person he wants to be with.

my ex wanted commitment without being stable, told her if she can last 6-12 months without an episode, i'd propose and we'd be married, 4 days went by and she blew up again because i hadn't proposed at that point